Forgiveness is the Sweetest Word in the World

You know, sometimes the best ideas for sermons don’t arrive while you’re staring at a blank page—they sneak up on you in the middle of someone else’s sermon. That’s what happened to me last week while listening to my brother-in-law preach. He said something simple, almost in passing, but it hit me like a hymnbook falling off the back of a pew:  “Forgiveness is the sweetest word in the world.”

Now, I’m not usually one to steal material… but I am willing to borrow it aggressively, so . . . 

The more I sat with that phrase, the more it grew on me. Think about it:  forgiveness really is the sweetest word in the world. It’s sweeter than “dessert buffet,” sweeter than “your package has arrived,” and maybe even sweeter than “the doctor says it’s just allergies.” Forgiveness is the core of the Christian story, the anchor of our hope, and the center of how we respond to God’s will.

So, let’s walk through this big, beautiful idea together—because if forgiveness is the sweetest word in the world, we ought to understand why.

The Need for Forgiveness: We’re All in the Same Boat

The Bible has a way of leveling the playing field pretty quickly—Romans 3:23 reminds us that “all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” In other words, none of us has a spotless record. We’ve all messed up. Some of us have sinned loudly, some quietly, but nobody gets to claim perfection.

If sin were a stain, we’d all be walking around like we ate spaghetti while wearing white.

And because of that sin, we need forgiveness—not just a casual “my bad,” but a deep, soul-cleansing reconciliation with the God who made us. Left to ourselves, we can’t fix it. We can try harder, promise better, or pretend we’ve got it handled—but the truth is:  we need help. We need grace.

The Means of Forgiveness: Jesus at the Center

This is where the sweetness gets even sweeter.

Forgiveness isn’t something we earn; it’s something God offers. And He doesn’t offer it with crossed arms or a raised eyebrow. He offers it freely, lovingly, and through the perfect sacrifice of Jesus.

Ephesians 1:7 puts it beautifully:  “In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins.”

Jesus didn’t come to earth to make us “better people.” He came to save us. To forgive us. To restore us.

And the amazing thing is—He actually invites us into that grace. Not by guessing what to do, but by giving us a clear path: faith, repentance, confession of His name, and baptism—that beautiful moment where we are united with Christ, our sins are washed away, and we rise to walk in newness of life (Acts 2:38; Romans 6:3–4). Baptism isn’t an “extra.” It’s part of the moment we come to Jesus, part of the embrace of His saving forgiveness.

Forgiveness isn’t just sweet—it’s accessible.

The Results of Forgiveness: A Whole New Life

Now, here’s the really good part:  forgiveness doesn’t just clean up our past—it transforms our present and redirects our future.

When God forgives, He doesn’t do it halfway. Psalm 103 says He removes our sins “as far as the east is from the west.” That’s poetic Hebrew for “so far you couldn’t find it again with a map, a compass, and a search party.”

Forgiven people become forgiving people. We’re called to release bitterness, mend relationships, and extend grace—because God has extended so much grace to us. Forgiveness becomes both a gift we receive and a gift we pass on.

And what does forgiveness produce in our lives? Peace. Joy. Hope. A lighter heart. A deeper faith. A stronger walk. And a perspective that sees others not as problems to be fixed, but as souls to be loved.

A Sweet Final Thought

Forgiveness really is the sweetest word in the world—not because it sounds nice, but because of what it accomplishes. It takes broken people and makes them whole. It takes guilty people and sets them free. It takes lost people and brings them home.

And God offers it to every one of us.

So yes, inspiration came from a sermon I didn’t plan to borrow from—but I suppose good ideas belong to God anyway. And His idea of forgiveness? It’s sweeter than anything we could ever imagine.

The Upside-Down Kingdom: Living by the Values of Jesus

When I was younger, I remember hearing a story about how hunters used to catch monkeys in parts of Asia and Africa. It’s really kind of simple. They take a hollow gourd, tie it to a tree, and cut a small hole in the side. The hole is just big enough for a monkey’s open hand to fit through. Then they drop a piece of fruit or something shiny inside. The curious monkey reaches in, grabs the treat, and suddenly finds its clenched fist is too big to pull back out. All it would have to do to escape is let go of what it is holding. But it doesn’t. It stubbornly holds on to what it wants, and that keeps it trapped until the hunter arrives.

We can smile at the foolishness of that little monkey—but we shouldn’t laugh too hard. Spiritually speaking, we do the same thing. We hold on to comfort, control, pride, and possessions that keep us from real freedom. Jesus calls us to let go, but that’s easier said than done – especially when what He teaches runs so opposite to what we’ve always been told.

Jesus’ teachings have always been a bit upside down—at least compared to the world’s logic. He didn’t come to reinforce popular thought; He came to replace it. And what He offered was nothing short of a complete reordering of values. Power, status, comfort, and self-preservation were out. Humility, sacrifice, service, and faith were in.

Let’s look at three moments in Jesus’ teaching that show how completely He turned our expectations inside out.

1. The Greatest Is the Servant - Mark 10:42-45

When Jesus’ disciples argued about who among them was the greatest, He didn’t scold or berate them for wanting to be great—He simply redefined what greatness looks like. He said, “Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be slave of all.” Then He pointed to Himself:  “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

That’s not how greatness works in the world. In business, in politics, or even in our social lives, greatness usually means getting noticed, getting ahead, or getting our way. But Jesus flips that kind of thinking upside down. In His Kingdom, greatness isn’t measured by how many people serve you—it’s measured by how many people you serve.

In short, greatness wears an apron, not a crown.

2. Losing Life to Find It - Luke 9:23-24

Then there’s another paradox of Jesus that sounds backwards to our ears: “Whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for my sake will save it.”

It’s not that Jesus wants us to live recklessly; He’s showing us that the more we try to hold on to control, the more we actually lose the very thing we’re trying to preserve. The monkey in the gourd had a clear goal—keep the prize. But what it held on to became the reason it couldn’t escape.

We often fall into the same trap. We hold on to our plans, our possessions, or our pride, thinking they’ll keep us safe. But in the end—they just keep us stuck. Jesus invites us to release our grip—to trust that real life begins when we let go of the illusion of control and hand our lives over to Him.

It’s a strange kind of math:  subtraction becomes addition, loss becomes gain, and surrender becomes freedom. 

That’s the logic of the Kingdom.

3. Blessed Are the Least - Matthew 5:1–12

And then, just when we think we’ve figured Him out, Jesus steps up on a hillside and says, “Blessed are the poor in spirit… blessed are those who mourn… blessed are the meek… blessed are those who are persecuted.”

Now, that’s not how we have used the word “blessed.” The world says, “Blessed are the rich, the confident, the successful, the comfortable.” But Jesus looks at the humble, the grieving, and the overlooked and says, “You’re the ones who are truly blessed, because the Kingdom belongs to you.”

He wasn’t offering a list of religious virtues to add to our list of things to work on; instead, He was painting a picture of a new kind of life—a life rooted not in achievement, but in dependence on God. In reality, the Beatitudes are less about climbing ladders and more about stepping down into the kind of humility that makes room for grace.

So, in Jesus’ world, the least become the most loved, and those who seem to have nothing discover they already have everything.

Turning Life Right Side Up

From beginning to end, Jesus’ Kingdom seems upside down to us—until we realize it’s actually right side up and we’re the ones who have been living upside down all along.

The world tells us to take—Jesus says to give. The world tells us to lead—Jesus says to serve. The world says hold on tight—Jesus says let go. The world says self-preservation—Jesus says self-sacrifice.

And maybe that’s why following Jesus feels hard to us sometimes—it’s not just about changing our behavior, it’s about changing our complete direction. It means loosening our grip on the things that trap us and trusting that God’s way, as backward as it seems at the moment, is the only way that truly leads us forward.

So the next time you feel stuck, like you can’t quite move forward in faith, stop and ask:  “What am I still holding onto?” It might just be your gourd moment—the thing Jesus is waiting for you to let go of so you can finally be free.

After all, the monkey never had to be trapped. He just had to open his hand.